Vaginal dryness

Vaginal dryness... Clinical sexologists and sexual scientists define orgasm as an experience that affects the entire body involving pleasurable waves of energy, preceded by engorgement with blood of the genitals and nipples, and often accompanied by involuntary muscular contractions, changes in breathing, heart rate, blood pressure, skin color, as well as the release of chemicals in the brain causing temporarily altered states of consciousness. Many women find that genital arousal is their favorite way to achieve orgasm. For some women, arousal results most intensely from direct stimulation of the clitoris. For others, the clitoris may be too sensitive to be touched directly and stimulation of the surrounding vulval structures may be preferred. For some women, the clitoris retracts and almost disappears as it becomes engorged with excitement. For others, the clitoris becomes more visible with excitement, filling with blood and becoming "puffed up" like the labia and the nipples. For some women, genital arousal results most intensely from direct stimulation of the vaginal canal by a finger, a sex toy, or a penis. Many women find that the anterior wall of the vagina is especially sensitive, forming the so-called "G-spot" that can make vaginal play intensely pleasurable. Vaginal dryness... Taking time for yourself is not being selfish and is not something you should feel guilty about. Everyone needs to take some time away from the rigors of the outside world once in a while. How you find this time is up to you. One of the ways I do it is to go to the one safe haven in our house, the bathroom. It has a lock; it has a shower and a nice long tub for me to lie in. I can light candles or leave the main light on, I can read a book in peace and I have a very good masturbation tool in the showerhead as well as a pair of hands at my disposal. [One word of warning here if you normally masturbate with a vibrator, please make sure it's waterproof before using it in the bathtub or shower, especially if you normally use an electric one!! I'm told that electrocution is not a pleasant experience!! Vaginal dryness... We often go walking and camping in the Lake District (English National Park). Part of the fun is to get away from civilisation so our camps are often in remote places where normal hikers would not go. Waking up in the fresh air, miles from the next living sole, as the sun is just rising and the world seems so still is amazing. On more than one occasion, when I have been the first awake, I have celebrated the event by getting totally naked and frigging myself off in the open air. It feels so natural and free. I always feel recharged after doing it. No masturbation at home, no matter how strong the orgasm, has quite the same effect on me. At University I fell in with a crowd that had high alcohol consumption levels and low morals. Vaginal dryness... She, however, said nothing to anyone about the incident but I found it so hard to look her in the eye again (and I missed my little breaks) that I soon moved on to a new job. When I was 12 or 13 I was masturbating away in my bedroom when the door suddenly opened and in came my mother. I tried to pass it off as scratching an itch on my thigh but I can't believe she was fooled for a minute. It was never mentioned again but from then on she started to knock if she wanted to enter my room when I was in there alone. I got so worked up watching a male strip group perform at our club that I just had to start touching myself. I looked around to see if anyone could see me and what I was doing. The lighting was low and the audience was only interested in what was going on up on the stage so I risked it. Afterwards I was shocked at what I had done but as no one saw me, I just though, 'what the hell' - it was very nice. Vaginal dryness... Those operated by batteries and those that require mains electric. Whichever type you choose it's important to realise that both types are powerful although in general the mains electric ones more so. It's a good idea not to use a vibrator directly on your clitoris the first time you ever try one because of this. You might well find that the stimulation they afford is too intense, so I'd suggest that you first try placing it on your labia or your mons. You may even want to try using it whilst you have your panties on as this can produce a different more subtle sensation than direct clitoral contact. Don't be afraid to try new things, they aren't called sex toys for nothing. The idea is to have fun and find what works for you personally. One thing that is often over looked when people first try vibrators is lubricants. Vaginal dryness...